I hate talking to him when I’m mad. I’d raise my voice and when I’m mad I can’t think clearly and go off tangent .Bawling my eyes out when he counter argue and then we end up both in a state .

So lately every time I’m upset at him I’d text him. I’d write down why I am upset. Reasons being etc etc. 

He doesn’t normally reply to my texts. At least he reads them and in doing so it might get through to him more than I ever did raising my voice and crying.

Anyhow don’t know why we fight so much. You’d think being with each other for the last 27 years the fights would be less or non existent by now. 

You know the more you live with the other person you’re suppose to know them better and work in harmony with them? What a load of bull crap.