Yes he’s dumped work on me yet again. I was going into the business to do scripts. Didn’t even get around to it when he pretty much told me.

You need to do my homework for me . I was like no way no no no. I’m not doing your homework for you.

No it’s not for my course . It’s that talk about Meniere’s disease. It’s group 3 points you know.

Yes I do know. Talks account for the highest of all CPD points . Group 3 points get multiplied by 3 . So if you spent 3 hours on it you get 9 points etc. Group 2 points only get counted as double. 

It’s due like in a week and a bit. This is what happens when I stay home . I end up being a dumpee and he the dumper. He dumps me with stuff when he sees I’ve got my crap under control.

I get my crap under control so that I’ve got time to do things that I want to do. Not be his slave. 

It’s frustrating as . Annoyed at him but if I don’t help him who will? Marriage suck bad sometimes.

I guess I can refuse. Leave him in a lurch. I don’t have time as is. I haven’t had time to sit down and make cards. 

This week I haven’t done any dispensing as I’m waiting for the girls to finish packing . Which means tomorrow and Wednesday I have to go into the business to dispense scripts so I can take the kids down to the hidey hole on Wednesday night.

My time seems to be swallowed up doing other people’s stuff. 

He must think oh she stays home all day. She has nothing do do. 

His comment just then you must have had a great day shopping. Ummmm not really . I didn’t buy anything for me except for that one jacket . 

It was all for the kids. And since I phoned home to offer to take away lunches for them I had to bring it all home and couldn’t shop anymore.

Saw this mob Williams -Sonoma in Chaddie  and couldn’t go in as I had two take away bags full of food.

So no today I didn’t have fun shopping.

I’m still annoyed at him and no I don’t really want to do that talk . I have no interest in learning about Meniere’s disease or how to treat it with drugs.

Arghhhh. If he was more organised this would not have happened. 

He’s just came up. I’ve told him no. I’m putting my foot down. I’m not doing his stuff for him.

He can’t just accept something and try to pass the buck. It’s not fair. 

I’m trying hard as is to have groceries and dinners organised . The house and the kids in order so he can study in peace.

But no he goes and watch kungfu movies, go play badminton have drinking nights with his mates instead of studying then it’s not my problem.

I’m not in the best of mood as is. I’ve been home near 2 months now and nothing . Feels like I’ve achieved nothing.