I have a husband with needs . The thing is I don’t know how to solve this dilemma.
Like this morning he’s like I want to. Okie I suppose it’s my fault. We should have been at it days ago. I know he can’t go that long without letting his volcano explode 😂
It’s not like I’m keeping it from him. He’s been studying and by the time he gets to bed it’s midnight and I’m already snoring away.
As for me I only get the urge when I’m excited 😂 like seeing a cute guy with a nice pair of buns or watching porn 😂 or read something naughty like those erotica poems . They make me wet.
So this morning he was at it. I was annoyed to say the least. The 530am starts were getting to me. I wanted to sleep.
Of course I pretended to. Me lying there closing my eyes letting him fiddle away.
As soon as he tried to force it in I reminded him about the lub. Then back I went to closing my eyes and well what happened happened.
He tends to just pump until I’m ready. Then I climb on him and grind until I come. Once I do he turns me over on all fours until he comes. He usually fondle my boobs as he explode into me.
I was thinking after 27 years our sex life has reduced to this?
I mean there was a time when I was jumping all over him. I even wrote in my diary how into him I was.
And that is it. I miss really kissing someone. Really hard passionate sex. Guess I miss Mr Apothecary and Mr Chef. Gosh thinking about it makes me wet. Oh my oh my.
Will write about them one day.
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so maybe you need to fascinate about those two guys while you’re at it. 😉
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May be 😊
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Was I old enough to read that… o.O lol
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Probably not 😊
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Well it was informative! Hahaha
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This was kinda sad to read. 😕
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Kind of.
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I’m sorry. 😕
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Don’t be. I don’t give up that easily 😊 just have to try harder😊
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That’s a two-way street.
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Dewy, you have the power to add some spice back into your sex life WITH your hubby!!
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I know Jad. Just have to try I guess. Too much has happened in the 27 years and well we are both to blame.
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Dewy, life is too damn short to spend a minute not loving every moment!!! Spice up that marriage girl, forget the past, look forward!!
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I know guess I’d better stock up on ice cream and Gstrings then 😊
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Don’t forget the chocolate syrup
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Lol he can’t have caffeine 😊Maybe honey but honey is sticky 😩
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You can get caffeine free chocolate syrup
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😂
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That was me not that long ago (minus the me-actually-cumming part)…. 20 years of it. But there wasn’t any spice to begin with, soooo…. kinda my fault for “sticking with it” that long. But I had the same thought: do I really want to keep doing this year after year?? My answer was no. We were so incompatible it was a joke. We were roommates who occasional had sex for literally 20 years. All that to say, I empathize. If you want to stay together, I guess, you’ve both got to decide together that you both need to put some effort into revitalizing your marriage, in and out of the bedroom. It doesn’t work with just one person putting in the effort, I know. I tried that too.
On a different note, I absolutely LOVE being woken up in the middle of the night for sex! My One True Love totally does this (twice in fact last night 😳😍) . But then again, we are completely compatible and insatiable with one another. But for me it’s a huge turn-on to wake up to that (and this is coming from someone who likes to sleep 12 hours a day).
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Glad you’ve found someone. On the whole mine is a nice guy. We are opposites and it’s been frustrating all along. He looks after me and the kids. So for now I’ll stay put. I doubt I would want to start again. That thought is scary in itself.
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Oh, it was for me too! Took me eight years to work up the nerve to leave him! My ex was a nice, albeit manipulative man, who always provided financially (but not emotionally or physically) for me and our daughter. In the end, I didn’t want my daughter thinking a distant touch-me-not man was “normal” nor did I want to turn into a bitter old woman, unhappy and unsatisfied. My ex and I are still friends, we just are compatible for marriage. I wasn’t looking for love or a new relationship but as it turned out, True Love found me. I am incredibly blessed. I actually wrote a piece or two about when I was going through it, trying to get brave enough to leave him. It was therapeutic to write my thoughts out. Sort of organized my thoughts.
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Yes that’s why I write. It’s to ordered my thoughts. Something to focus on.
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Mine never used to be touchy feely. He was brought up that way. Where as I’m very touchy feely. I love to cuddle and after years with me he is now touchy feely too. The thing with him is his touch ends up being more and not tough for touch sake. He tells me he’s addicted to me lol an addiction is never good
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Uh-oh! I always tell my Lover that I’m addicted to him, too! I always want more, more!! I guess it works for us because we are both super touchy-feely. But it’s not always sexual. A lot of times it’s just a little touch here and there. Lots of hand-holding, or a passing-by stroke. Just a little reminder that I love him and he loves me.
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I’m running behind on my reading lately, so, I’m just now getting into this. It is a shame when the passion dissipates some. I can say that most people have experienced that personally in their own lives. Sometimes, you just have to take what you want and show the passion yourself. Or, be open and honest, tell him what you need. It could go a long way.
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Thanks. It sucks 😊 He wants to tie me up and lick me all day 😩
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And the problem with this is…? Lol
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Because I don’t trust him. He could inflict some serious damage 😂
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Lmao. True, you’ve mentioned that before. But, anytime you want to be tied up…just give me a ring. 😉
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Not sure if I trust you either. You sound dangerous 😂
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Perhaps, lol. But, never more than you can take. 😏
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I like a man in control but lots of cuddles I don’t do pain 😊
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I have this problem too and have blogged about my experiences to get my sex drive back. I wish you best of luck- it’s horrid when you feel like you want to want to have sex, but you just don’t. xx
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I think we all have needs . Just how we deal with it.
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wow Dewy I love your blog. I have to admit I was very confused at first but it makes sense now. I on the other hand did the opposite, my drive just died. I had a husband that didn’t want it, got a lover, he couldn’t keep up with it…how sad that I took it internally
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Thanks the follow 🙂
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