In 5 years time, today would not matter. A guy I’ve just met told me that.
It’s a mean to get to where I want to go. It has to be done.
I think I’ve got the grit to get it done. Though I’m floundering.
We had a bad year last year and well it keeps on coming.
They are taking us to court with regard to the bad business investment. Hubby is in denial. I’m dealing with it.
He’s left it since when we got back from holidays and has not touched it.
Today I took over and rang the firm. Found out the story of it all and trying to get them to give us time to pay that 90K.
On the writ we have to come up with the money by 28/3/18 which is next Wednesday or we go to court which means more money for the lawyers.
I told her look your first letter reached us on 16/1 we were overseas. On the letter it told us we had 14 days to comply ?
Then the next thing we see is the writ?
What happened was we were supposed to either default and pay the whole lot or pay interest on the loan and keep going.
Well they never gave us that choice. I told her we never received any correspondence at all so it’s unfair to just dump it on us.
Anyhow she’s going to look into it since a lot of other people have complained to her about it.
Here is hoping it gets better. Been thinking I should volunteer more to wad off anymore bad luck.
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Sorry you are going through that financial hassle. 90k is a lot of money to come up with!!
5 years is a long way off and your right in many cases in 5 years time it won’t matter but realistically a person cannot live their life thinking “well in 5 years time it won’t matter” I firmly believe it is more important to live for the present rather than the past or the future….sure take lessons from the past and plan for the future but if we don’t live for the present we can miss out on so much joy!!
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I do live in the present. Just some days are all over the place. Yesterday was one I don’t want to repeat . I don’t have a 5 years plan like some . I just muddle along and so far so good. I get there eventually. Plus this emotional perimenopausal is driving me nuts. Bawled my eyes out of something minor yesterday.
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Yeah I know the menopausal stuff, I am wearing a patch and they work freaking wonders!!!
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Nicely done. I’m not up the the stage where it’s unbearable at the moment.
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Sending hugs to you–
I have boxes marked 20 years. If I don’t open them from moving the last time before the 20 years are up, I don’t need anything in them. I may just get rid of them before that time! Although, there are a pair of silver bracelets I cannot find.
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My goodness Kris. I’ve been decluttering . I don’t keep much. The kids have their own boxes. I pretty much only keep my flutes , music books and my CDs and my writings. I don’t wear jewellery so none of that oh and my hat collection.
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I will ask people who work for me, “where do yo see yourself in five years”. Lots of different answers
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That’s the worse question ever for someone that doesn’t have goals.
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Yes and those ppl are not always good workers. They tend to move around from job to job looking for fulfillment
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Yes I hated interviews with that question as I could never answer them. If the job provides a good environment then I’d stay and well we never stop learning.
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Then that’s your answer. You got to have a dream. Something that you like to do. I used to ask if you could start a business that was funded for the first year and you were paid what would you do. What is it in life that you love to do ?
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