I have lost communication and trust with my ex.

Last Friday I found out from the kids he’s gone to VN for a week to visit his mum. He took off without telling them. The youngest came home to find him gone.

She was upset. I didn’t get a courtesy call either to say please look after the kids.

Today I went into the joint account to find he’s withdrawn 5K, sent 10K to a girl and another 3.3K to his friend.

I was livid. The 15K tax refund was supposed to go towards the mortgage.

Anyhow he’ll find out when he gets back on Wednesday. I’ve since transferred the above amount into my bank account and 20K into the mortgage account.

I need a drink now to calm me down. Can’t focus to study 😩