Have thought about it and well the solution to my problem is to move my oldest out .
Then she can have as many sleep overs as she want. She can live like a pig if she so desired.
I can’t handle her anymore. Have texted hubby that if he doesn’t move her I will.
Next week when I have more time I’m going to go shopping for a washing machine and dryer.
She’s already got a fridge from when she was in Bendigo .
The house have a dining table already and a window seat.
I’m going to go back to my hidey hole as well when I have a chance and grab excess stuff for the kitchen.
Thank goodness I still kept the spare kettle and toaster.
Our rental will be her new home. It’s only 5 minutes tram ride to her Uni. That’s why we bought it in the first place .
Feeling much better now .
Don’t know why we clash so much . Fragile relationship of mother and daughter? Where’s the balance?