I’ve had enough . Another fight with hubby over our daughter then everything came out.
All the crap came out and it’s all blame blame. Blaming me for everything .
For not taking our son to tutoring so he has to do it. Despite me telling him to find a tutor closer to home but no he went ahead with it.
For him having to fix up the rental . Well he didn’t have to . I was willing to go find a handyman to do it but when I told him he didn’t want me to hire one? Now he’s turning it on me.
And the kids. I’m always the baddie . Always the one being tough on them so they learn to be good people. How does our son learn responsibility? If his dad let him off his chores?
How does my daughter learn respect of other people’s belongings by trashing the place?
Last time we had this fight about his daughter he said he’ll sort it out. Well it’s not working so have told her she’d better find a place to move out. We’ll pay the rent. If not I’ll find an apartment and move her out .
I’ve had enough . Have SMS him my reply.
Marriage is damn hard work some days and today I just feel like saying to him do what ever you want . I am out of here.
Dewy's Place 
I’m with you there – damn hard work. Keep fighting the good fight x
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Slow down, relax, take deep breath.
Making a family is tough these days, specifically for kids.
Remember it’s always because of 3rd person, a couple fight.
And in my own observation, every couple have something completely contrasting. Like one rich other poor or educated and other not. One more cultural other not. Things like that.
If both couple, understand that difference, and absorbed this differences those will be great.
However, I have keenly observed, those who can’t able too or forgot or don’t want. One issue starting from the same difference triggers up into different issues.
Than it will be difficult to tell what’s the reason of the issues or the Base of it for resolution.
The couple have to compromise on those differences. It always these differences.
Relax and look at these differences in your parents, friends etc.
You will find it, and observe how they take it
My wife and I have age difference, I am younger than her. She always have this hysteria about it and discomfort. So I comfort her.
Same goes on the other hand, I am way disciplined, can’t tolerate anything, no matter what can’t help myself. I lose my temper very easily over it.
So unfortunately, she is at time at the receiving end. I am very organised and punctual on my timing issue. And don’t like to slip a minute.
So it’s always a fight over it.
So chill relax, think about it.
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I’m like you . I have a short temper. I like to be organised and punctual . I hate being late. He’s the opposite of me.
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Unfortunately, we have to patience in it. But he must have some other very good quality.
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He’s a kind person that’s why I married him even though I didn’t fall in love with him. I married him because he’s a good guy.
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