Have spent the day pretty much playing with my blog. Apparently I started out giving my posts like 2-3 categories each.
Anyhow it seems to only happen in the first two months. I’ve tidied up one month. Only got one more to go.
After that got to go through the blog to shift posts from life to wanderings.
Feels like I’ve done good today. Have gotten rid of love and kids. In their place wanderings and poetry.
It’s still not up to scratch but at least I know how to structure my blog now. Had no clue a few months back .
I love it when it’s ordered. If only my life is the same. Would love to be able to put bits of my life in boxes.
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I like to read your rants. So a bit of this and that will work
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I’m glad 😂 it took me forever to work out what to write about and well I just write about anything and everything 😂
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The main thing is to take out frustration by writing which is important. Else you will take out on kids or hubby or Mil.
Family is important, making and boulding together won’t be easy and never can be glued one, always a leak. The important part is to be together in difficult times to see the sunshine later.
I wish you peace, happiness and tranquillity in your life. 🤗💐
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My MIL live in VN thank goodness. I think we’d be divorced by now if we all lived under the same roof 😩
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I love to go Vietnam, very beautiful place, we were first planning to go but than change the mind.
So If I go, I give my regards of yours to your Mil 😂
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Lol
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If you want to send some special soup I will be glad to take at no addition cost 😉
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Thanks for your offer but I don’t want her to say I’m trying to poison her 😂
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I will be surprised to know myself, she gets poison and than have the energy to say that their was poison 🤐😄
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She’s old and got heart problems. As long as she doesn’t interfere I’m happy. She probably tries to marry hubby off to some girl every time he goes back to visit lol
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Seriously I thought we Pakistani have typical Asian issues guess we all Asians have the same story!
Same opera stories I listen about in Pakistan, India, Bangladesh, China and now from Vietnam side 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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My MIL is the second wife. She can’t have kids so my real MIL who is really nice had to give her two babies to raise up. One happened to be my hubby. Before the war hubby’s family was rich so his grandma was worried she was going to adopt her niece or nephew thus the money would go out of the family.
My poor MIL gave up her babies when they were only two days old . Not only did she lose her husband she lost her two boys as well.
Anyhow that’s why his family don’t like my MIL the second wife.
I don’t like her either. She sweet talk and stab you in the back.
I love his biological mum. She’s a really sweet old lady.
It’s common for men to have two wives in VN, soap opera all around no need to go watch movies 😂
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Wow sounds like a typical Asian platter to me, without adding any additive to spice up or the additional salt / sugar to make it sweet and sour.
Typical Asian story, I don’t how we all have the sort of same stories to share without going in details. Whereas in West it’s not the case.
So why in Asia itself, this mindsets exist, an interesting discussion in my view!
You are also from Vietnam? or you are born and bread somewhere else?
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Yes from VN but Australian now. Australia is home now.
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That’s great my sister and brother is in Australia. I don’t know how you guys manage the weather in Australia.
Sis in Melbourne and brother now in Sydney.
The weather is so dam changing all the time.
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You get by. Just have to layer. I always have a rain jacket in my backpack just in case it rains . If it gets hot you start stripping one layer at a time until it’s comfortable. If it gets cold you put your layers back on. You never wear anything thick as can’t get it right.
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BTW I didn’t know it’s common Vietnam to have 2 wives, I thought Africa and Middle East takes that credit only lol
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It’s in our culture case of the first wife wanting control over the husband so she finds him a second wife. That way she knows he’s not sleeping around and only sleep with the second wife. Most time it’s her that goes and ask for the hand in marriage . Either that or her husband find someone and the wife gives the approval . Sometimes she has no say. Doesn’t matter how it’s still a sad state of affairs.
Our culture is that men are treated like kings and women are crap lol
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Wow wow wow such an interesting insight into your culture I thank you for this deep information and sharing. So you can have a control on his 2nd wife. What else you need?
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I’m selfish I don’t wish to share . I’d just let him go and find myself another husband 😂
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Now thats a first of its kind wife for sure 😂😂😂😂
Or I guess in your words, let others face the music lol
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So your husband didn’t demanded 2nd wife?
And do you mind if I share this information at my end, I have one series by the name of What I learn today. I like to share this, this is very interesting cultural thing about Vietnam I have learned.
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No he doesn’t he thinks one wife is enough headache as is
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All men thinks alike lol
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Unless the 2 can manage each other and we the men can manage ourselves in between
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