I haven’t been in much as been busy getting our taxes in order. Only managed to balance one year. Still got another two to go.
Our book keeper was shocking. Numbers all wrong. It took me the whole night and morning to balance it up.
First she was 200K out on expenses. When I put in the extra expenses it went negative. So then our income must have been higher.
Anyhow it’s all sorted. We are going to see the accountant on Monday.
As for us we are going to get a divorce. Talked to him last night and well both of us felt it was the right thing to do.
I’m to get valuations whilst he’s away. Then we will settle financially first. If he can’t buy me out I’ll stay his business partner and he gets a wage. I’ll take half of whatever is left. If I take on book keeping the shop will pay me.
The two should be enough for me to live on. As for living arrangements I’m to stay with him for the next two years so our youngest can finish high school.
Then I’ll move out to a small apartment in the city. The investment property will be kept as my investment.
He gets the house. As it makes sense since he works downstairs.
It’s all falling into place. We’ve always been better friends than lovers. Divorces shouldn’t be traumatic. We still care for each other.
Wow!
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Yes wow. It was a long time coming. In a way I’m glad it’s got here. What I’m sad about is the wasted years that we could have both find happiness elsewhere.
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Part of me is sorry for you both. Part of me is happy for you both. Hope this all goes smoothly.
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Thanks . No need to be sorry . We are both at peace now. We will look after each other. No worries with that. It’s not a divorce where we fight to the bitter end. The kids do come first.
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Good. 😊
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I’m officially on a summer hiatus from my blog right now, which includes reading other bloggers. But a kind of psychic energy told me to check out your doings, Vy, because I thought something might be happening. I see I was right.
I’ve walked the same road that you’re currently traveling, and I do wish you the best. Careful ‘cos it can get bumpy. Safe journeys! – Marty
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Thanks for popping in Marty. Have a great Summer. Everything will be black and white on paper so fingers crossed. I’ll be making provisions for me. If he ever decide to buy the business off me the numbers are there as I’ll do the book keeping. That money will be my investment to live on. So I’ll be right touchwood.
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