Like a snail. The one frustrating bit about divorcing is the whole process. It’s moving so slow.
Luckily we are still friends. Even so it’s driving me nuts.
1/ can’t do anything until next year as we still got that stupid tree loan to pay off. Last payment January.
2/ hidey hole still not sold so still waiting. Hopefully once weather gets warmer more viewings. Only one more week of footy and people might start looking for holiday houses.
3/ business I can’t do nothing about as yet. Waiting for subdivision to come through so I can get the lease written up. Then it’s a case of removing my name from the business but not until we can sign over deeds of the house etc.
Problem is once I sign over I need to find a place to work to keep my pharmacy registration unless I still help him out.
4/ then our Medicare, Medibank and ambulance subscriptions needs altering
5/ cars need to change with RACV our road side assist, Linkt our toll account.
I’m going to slowly change them all and put mine under mine. His under his. So when I move out it’s sorted.
I’m over the whole process.
Had a get together with my friends yesterday and she alerted me to the fact that you can’t sign over your properties to your spouse without paying stamp duty on your portion.
Was panicking as it puts our plans into disarray.
I’ve been researching about it. Yes it’s true what her accountant said but there’s an exemption if you divorce. Does it means we need to file for divorce before that can happen?
https://www.sro.vic.gov.au/spouse-and-partner-exemption
So much paperwork and process that it is painful.
Say what??!!! Miss dewy…
You are getting a divorce from hubby???!!!
Nah maan..
Why do you want to do that..???!!!!
Divorce is a hassle though… especially if you have joint everything…
You seems very eager too..
It’s so sad that it has come to this point of your relationship.. and I’m sure you must have thought it necessary enough to actually go through with it..
Divorces are always bitter sweet…
Good luck 👍 on the process of finalizing it all
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Yes divorcing. It’s a hassle all right. I protected my assets by making sure everything is in joint names lol.
Earlier in my marriage everything was in his name. I was worried if anything went wrong I had 3 kids to think of and well that’s why.
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I do understand.. miss dewy..
Being there done that…
It will all worked out.. just be patient and tackle one at a time
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I’m not a very patient person. My weak point.
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Sometimes you are being tested on your weaknesses
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Yes that’s true.
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Sending hugs and hopes you can get things ironed out. Mom dying is hard enough to sort thru, divorce must be a million times worse.
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You’ve got the more difficult job of caring for her. Once everything settles down I’m done. It’s the kids I’m worried about most. Don’t think they will cope without me. Even today I’m off to the city to interview students I’ve asked the oldest to cook. She replied she’s studying. Anyhow have given the youngest money to be at her sister’s beck and call to do groceries since she’s just started her school holidays.
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Hmmm, all the best Dewy
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Thanks Kurian
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Ugh, I get ya…been there twice, never again!! Once it is done though you can move forward and plan
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I know. Moving very slowly. Cars are splitted. Now Medicare today. Medibank I’ll leave for now until we are done as it costs more to split.
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