Date 1:
(Saturday afternoon)
We had coffee.
We talked for 2 hours.
We found out about each other’s situation.
He paid for coffee.
Date 2:
(Tuesday morning)
I didn’t expect it to be so soon.
We had coffee again. I ordered and paid for coffee.
We talked for 45 minutes as he had a plane to catch.
What I found out? He irons for his kids π
That’s good as I HATE ..HATE ironing.
Financially he’s still got a joint account with his ex. It’s so the mortgage gets paid and school fees gets paid.
I’m all cool with that. Whatever works.
Anyhow the thing about this guy is I don’t know. I can’t read him. He’s very intelligent and a worldly man. He’s travelled a lot. Moves in a class I would never be exposed to. He sounds like old money. He’s actually met Malcolm Fraser one of the prime ministers of Australia.
OK so where to from here? Not sure. He comes across as a nice guy. I got to the door first to exit yet he still hold it open for me.
Very close to his kids. Very active. Theatre goer. Food eater and he seems like a most dependable guy.
The thing is I don’t think my energy levels quite matched his π
In my very first meet-up just after my ex and I split up, I neglected to pay for the woman’s coffee. The woman never took off her sunglasses after she came back to the table. I literally had no idea what I was doing; it had been 20 years since I dated anyone. I got better at it after that. π – Marty
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Hehhehe I think it takes a bit of getting used to Marty. Iβm in no rush thatβs why taking it slow with this guy. I like it that heβs on the same page as me. Not sure about the status bit. I donβt have much self confidence there.
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I’ve missed so much being away from WP. I am determined to catch up, especially with all you’ve been up to. π
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Itβs been a hellish 2-3 years. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel I think π
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WELL STEP UP YOUNG LADY STEP UP!!
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How? π
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You’re gonna have to up your energy to match his….? You can do it.
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